The Effects Sexual Images/Activity on Teen Sexual Behavior from the Media
Current Issues in the Culture and the Church on Sex
Another study shows the effects of media sexual images/activity on teen sexual behavior
This is one of those “doh!” studies. It seems so commonsense. A study out of Dartmouth College shows that teens who are exposed to more sex scenes in popular films are more likely to engage in sexual activity.
We haven’t dug into the study itself, but “observational learning” (what one sees in life, especially if it is repeated over and over, becomes a way one learns to act) is one way we all learn, especially so with kids. We learn from seeing the behavior of others. We are influenced by our environment (but not determined by it). The shaping influence that comes from what someone is exposed to—when exposed over and over–can be powerful on teens, especially in the area of sex. Why?
Because sex is not just a biological drive (think hormones), it is a God-designed activity to be expressed in the context of relationships. We are created for relationship, and sex is one way we bond to another person. God created sex to be in the service of life-long, committed relationship (think marriage). But in the brokenness of the fall, sex is used in place of relationships or, increasingly so, just for physical pleasure (“it’s no big deal” mentality).
But preventing our kids from this type of media exposure is not enough to keep them from early sexualization. They need to learn what sex is for, and how God designed it, and what are the boundaries for its expression. That will form a foundation to intelligently interact with the media messages they are being assaulted with daily.
Then, they still need more than mere information. Information is not enough to change us, to keep us from the relentless sexual pressures the world presses in on us. Model before your kids a living faith in Jesus Christ, and teach and show them how that relationship is worth more than any other relationship in life. Research on teen sexual behavior has found that active involvement in one’s faith is the highest indicator for sexual integrity.